Have you always had bad luck on Friday the 13th? Afraid of a black cat crossing your path, or broken a mirror giving you seven years of bad luck?? Welp, you’re not alone! Apparently, the fear of Friday the 13th affects millions of Americans and even has its own name: triskaidekaphobia. This is the reason why many buildings don’t have a 13th floor, or rooms ending with the number 13. But what if we were to tell you that Friday the 13th wasn’t scary at all, and was, in fact, spun that way by a misogynistic ideal over thousands of years?
The History
Friday the 13th is actually very sacred and feminine. Friday, which is ruled by Freyja, a Norse fertility Goddess (as well as Venus and other feminine deities) is regarded as a sacred day for honoring the feminine within all of us and pampering ourselves!
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In addition, the number 13 is highly female as well. It marks the number of moon cycles within a year, in addition to the number of menstrual cycles each woman has per year. As the moon is regarded as feminine, what with being synced up with our Aunt Flo, the womanly energy expressed by this day used to be highly honored.
It wasn’t until years of superstition, brought on by centuries of crucifying witches, that this day garnered the stigma. Us feminist witches get a bad wrap, but really all we want to do is honor our womanly spirit. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
How to Celebrate Friday the 13th
Here are a few ways you can celebrate Friday the 13th like a Goddess, without being afraid of getting cursed {or stepping on a crack to break your mother’s back}.
- Take a trip to the spa
- Take a bath full of flower petals
- Do some womb healing
- Give yourself a pedicure
- Try for pregnancy {wink, wink}
- Create art of any kind
- Sing and dance
- Make a big meal
- Wear a yoni egg
- Do womb yoga
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And above all else, remember that patriarchal times are to blame for the stigma around Friday the 13th. It isn’t a real fear and only has to do with suppressing female spirit. Let’s take the day back and honor it with love and nurturing, as any woman would. Our gender is nothing to be ashamed of, it is to be celebrated and supported. Happy Friday the 13th!
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13 DIY Activities to Try in Hoboken + Jersey City
Hoboken and Jersey City have lots of possibilities when it comes to learning a new skill or creating a masterpiece of your own. DIY classes can be fun as a solo day, a date night or a group activity. Locally, there are several classes and events that will get the creative juices flowing and improve various skills. Read on to learn more about DIY classes and events in Hoboken and Jersey City, New Jersey.
Hoboken
ArteVino Studio | 720 Monroe Street
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Turning into a painter for a night is not as hard as it may seem with the guidance of the skilled instructors at ArteVino. Located in the Monroe Center, ArteVino regularly hosts paint classes where guests are guided through how to recreate an artistic masterpiece. Or, for those who are more advanced and want to try painting on their own, the studio has open-access options. To check out the full schedule and book a class, click here.
Blue Skies Pottery | 720 Monroe Street #C414
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Blue Skies Pottery is one of the few one-time pottery locations in the area. It’s located inside the Monroe Center and allows guests to try their hand at a potters’ wheel during one-time classes or by signing up for a multi-week course. Individual events are also offered for various groups or to hone certain skills. Reservations are required and can be made on the site here.
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Hudson Table | 1403 Clinton Street
Hudson Table is one of Hudson County’s most popular DIY class locations. At Hudson Table, guests can expect a highly interactive cooking class with renowned chef instructors. The hands-on classes have themed menus that cover a wide range of cuisines including Italian Bistro, Spanish Tapas, Texan Steakhouse, and more. The classes sell out quickly, but booking alerts can be made on the Hudson Table website. To book a class, click here.
Ivy Mane Studio | 1012 Grand Street
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Ivy Mane Studio promises a ‘more creative you’ through its DIY concrete-pouring workshops. This Hoboken art studio has a variety of classes where participants can make items such as vases, ashtrays, table games, and more. Individual class pricing ranges from $75-$105 or private events can be hosted to celebrate any occasion. To learn more about upcoming classes and to register, click here.
Mosaic Art Studio | 50 Harrison Street
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Participants can learn the art of Turkish lamp-making right in Hoboken. Mosaic Art Studio, located inside the Mission 50 co-working space, provides both a history lesson and an opportunity to make a creative piece. Guests start with a briefing on the history of Turkish lamp-making before being guided through how to make their own. As the project dries, guests are treated to Turkish treats before getting a grout kit to complete the project at home. To pre-book tickets and to learn more, click here.
New Jersey Coffee School | 720 Monroe Center
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Coffee is a way of life and those who are really into it can try to develop the skill of coffee making at the New Jersey Coffee School. While this location focuses more on skill-building for professionals, there are some classes for amateurs as well. The art of latte making is a great way to learn more about creating beautiful drinks from the comfort of home. The New Jersey Coffee School is consistently providing new classes for all skill levels. To learn more and to book a class, click here.
Sushi Making Class at Saku Hoboken | 936 Park Avenue
Saku Hoboken provides a lesson in the art of sushi making without an expensive plane ticket to Japan. Its “Rolling with the Homies” sushi class is great for an individual activity, a date night, or for a group of friends. Each guest will learn how to make rice wine vinegar and three sushi rolls. Tickets are $75 and classes are provided on Tuesdays from 6PM-8PM. To learn more, click here.
Tipsy Tie-Dye | 155 1st Street
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Partying with color is the vibe at Tipsy Tie-Dye. Guests can choose from any items for sale in the shop such as sweatshirts, pants, and t-shirts to dye or items can be brought in from home to dye. Tickets are open to guests of all ages until 5:30PM and then the venue turns to adults-only from 5:30PM-10:30PM. The classes are not formal, but Tipsy Tie-Dye team members are available to help guests with the process. To learn more about getting a reservation or booking a private event, click here.
Urban Arts | 720 Monroe Street
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Urban Arts is a children’s art studio located in the Monroe Center. In addition to the wide range of programs prvided for children, Urban Arts can be booked for a DIY class private event for guests of any age. Instructors are ready to assist with art mediums like pastels, acrylic paints, watercolors, colored pencils, and more. To learn more and inquire about pricing, click here.
Jersey City
Academy Darkroom | 279 Pine Street
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Photography is a true art form and Academy Darkroom in Jersey City is a great place to learn. Students can learn how to shoot on a film camera and how to develop film. Classes are provided by the semester and sign-ups are available throughout the year. To learn more and to sign up for a course, click here.
Art Mango | Jersey City
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After a session at Art Mango, you’ll be asking “Picasso who?” Art Mango is a paint and sip studio that hosts painting parties with small businesses in Jersey City. Instructors will guide students through re-creating a beautiful painting regardless of skill level. To check out which paintings are coming up next and to book a spot, click here.
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Atacama Clay Studio | 533 Central Avenue
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Would-be artists can unleash their inner potter at Atacama Clay Studio in Jersey City. This pottery studio has a class type for everyone: those who are just looking to try their hand at the wheel in a one-time class or, those looking to master the art, there are semester-long classes and membership opportunities. Skilled instructors are available at each session to guide students through the art of pottery and answer questions. To learn more about the class types and to secure a spot, click here.
Betty’s Ceramic Club + Supply Co | 224 9th Street
Betty’s Ceramic Club is located on 9th Street in Jersey City. This pottery haven has opportunities for beginners and advanced potters alike through membership options, six-week sessions, four-week short classes and even one-time opportunities. Betty’s also invites those who want to share the art with family and friends to celebrate special occasions with the shop’s party and event packages. To learn more about offerings and to book a class, click here.
